You can't help it if you look eerily similar to someone's manipulative ex, or if your resting face is...angry.

如果你看起来和某人控制欲很强的前任很像，或者你休息时的脸… … 很生气，这些都是你无法自己控制的。

They can help you have conversations with your ex or your children, and they can be a really, really valuable part of your divorce team.

他们可以帮助您与您的前任或您的孩子进行对话，并且他们可以成为您离婚团队中非常非常有价值的一部分。

Whatever you do, do not put your mutual friends in an awkward position by making them choose between you and your ex or talking really negatively about your ex behind their back.

无论你做什么，都不要让你们共同的朋友在你和你的前任之间做出选择，或者在他们背后对你的前任说非常负面的话，从而让他们处于尴尬的境地。