The best question askers know how to open many doors, even locked ones!

杰出的提问者知道如何开门，甚至是一扇带锁的门！

And I can see why you are a good question asker.

我明白为什么你是一个善于提问的人。

And by asking for the advice, it changes the relationship they have to me as the question asker.

通过寻求建议，它改变了他们与作为提问者的我之间的关系。

And so in the book, I talk about a bunch of strategies that you can deal with pushy askers.

所以在这本书中，我谈到了一堆你可以应对咄咄逼人的提问者的策略。

And by following a line of inquiry where it logically leads, both the question asker and answerer can end up in unexpected places.

通过一系列富有逻辑的质问，问题提出者和回答者都会有意想不到的收获。

Sure, the asker feels superficially satisfied, but the real prize is a boost in self-esteem the pleaser gets by seeing their work flourish.

当然，提问者表面上感到满意，但真正的奖励是讨好者看到自己的工作蒸蒸日上，自尊心得到了提升。

At the same time, both have their own pros and cons, so a distinct answer to this question must be based on the asker's needs.

同时，两者都有自己的利弊，所以对这个问题的明确回答必须基于提问者的需求。

Now unfortunately, we will come across people who will not take no for an answer, and we have to deal with those pushy askers.

不幸的是，现在我们会遇到不接受拒绝的人，我们不得不应对那些咄咄逼人的提问者。

So if you are getting pushback from a pushy asker in a face-to-face request, you might choose to convert that conversation to digitally mediated conversation.

因此，如果您在面对面的请求中遇到咄咄逼人的提问者，您可能会选择将该对话转换为以数字为媒介的对话。

Whether implicitly or explicitly asked, " are you Jewish? " has been historically a notably heavy question. For one thing, it's difficult to discern the intentions of the asker.

无论是含蓄还是明确地问，“你是犹太人吗？”历史上一直是一个特别沉重的问题。一方面，很难辨别提问者的意图。

Introverts are natural question askers, and you can use this to your advantage when you don't want to be in the spotlight or you don't know what to say, let others do all the talking.

内向的人天生就喜欢问问题，当你不想成为众人瞩目的焦点或不知道说什么时， 你可以利用这一点，让别人来说话。

After assigning either male or female designations to question askers—which the researchers acknowledge in the paper doesn't fully capture the spectrum of gender identity—they found that women ask far fewer questions than a representative result based on their numbers.

在为提问者指定男性或女性名称后（研究人员在论文中承认这并没有完全捕捉到性别认同的范围），他们发现女性提出的问题远少于基于她们人数的代表性结果。

Another effective way to communicate a refusal while maintaining the relationship with the asker is to use positive body language cues, to secure that relationship with a genuine smile, or leaning forward, or a kind gesture.

在与询问者保持关系的同时表达拒绝的另一种有效方法是使用积极的肢体语言暗示，通过真诚的微笑、身体前倾或友善的手势来确保这种关系。