If I could talk to my 19-year-old self, I'd just say, hey you know, you're gonna date just like a normal 20-something should be allowed to, but you're going to be a national lightning rod for slut shaming.

如果我可以跟十九岁的我交谈，我会说，嘿你知道吗，你在二十多岁的时候会和别人有一样的约会频率，但是你将会被别人说成一个让妓女都感到羞耻的国家级疯狂前女友。

And so I wondered, is there a way to ask, why do we stigmatize and slut shame and have all the, you know, kind of notions, preconceived notions, that we do.

所以我想知道，有没有办法问，为什么我们要污名化和荡妇羞耻，并且有我们所做的所有，你知道的，各种观念，先入为主的观念。