" However, the counselor's approach felt more like scolding and personal judgment rather than professional guidance, " Lin recalls.

“然而，咨询师的方式更像是责备和个人批判，而不是专业指导，”林回忆说。

But my judgment of her and appreciation of her are a personal judgment and appreciation, having nothing to do with her actual or potential relations, sexual or maternal, with other people.

但我对她的判断和欣赏是个人的判断和欣赏，与她与他人的实际或潜在的性关系或母性关系无关。