But it seems disrespectful to treat a peer paternalistically.

但以家长式的方式对待同龄人似乎是不尊重的。

We need to start positively engaging people with serious illness to keep them in the workforce, rather than paternalistically pushing them away.

我们需要开始积极地让患有重病的人留在工作岗位上，而不是像家长式地把他们推开。