You might also " kill someone with kindness" just to change the person, to get the person to like you more.

你也可以“以善杀人” 只是为了改变这个人，让这个人更喜欢你。

" To kill someone with kindness" means to be nice to someone in such a way that you are in fact damaging or hurting them, especially when someone has not been kind to you.

“以仁慈杀人”的意思是对某人友善，但实际上却在伤害或伤害他们，尤其是当某人对您不友善时。