" Don't be the first to extend your hand, even if you are comfortable, " Gottsman said.

" 即使你觉得握手这个方式不错，也不要第一个伸出你的手。"

Step 5 When you’re introduced, smile, look her parents directly in the eyes, and extend your hand. Nothing says “I can take care of your daughter” better than a firm handshake.

女友为你介绍时，要微笑并直视她的父母，并主动伸手去握手。什么也比上有力的握手更能说明“我能照顾好你的女儿”。

Six, if a person is really concentrated on a task, let's say they're in the middle of a serious phone conversation. You can extend your hand to them and get anything they're holding at the moment.

六，如果一个人真的在专心致志地做一件事，比方说他正在认真地讲电话。你可以向他们伸出你的手，拿走他们手中的任何东西。