And that is to identify where it is you had this deep flaw.

他说的也就是能找出你深藏的缺陷所在。

And if he were able to tell you what that deep personal flaw was, it would destroy you because you wouldn't be able to handle that truth.

如果他能告诉你那个埋藏很深的个人缺陷是什么，那将会毁了你，因为你会无法接受这个事实。

I mean, she's got a lot of very deep character flaws, and there are some major red flags that I am ignoring, but I see the potential.

我的意思是， 她有很多非常深刻的性格缺陷，还有一些我忽略的主要危险信号，但我看到了潜力。