Only because you threw yourself at Mr. Ingram.

那是因为你色诱英格拉姆老师。

I suppose I could tell her you threw yourself at me.

我想我得告诉她是你自己送上门的。

Here's what you got to do: throw yourself at him.

你这样 投怀送抱。

But you don't want to throw yourself at it too hard, allow the change to happen gradually and make sure you're doing things that work for you.

但大家也不要太投入，让改变慢慢地发生，确保你所做的事情对你有利。