Maybe I was a social butterfly, or a social animal less horrifying than a butterfly.

说不定我是擅长交际的花蝴蝶，或是别的比蝴蝶可爱的群居动物。

So for someone who is a social friendly butterfly, you wouldn't guess that she's bad at texting people back.

所以你绝对猜不到，她这朵交际花居然不擅长回复别人信息。

Not everyone is a social butterfly, Mr. Reese.

并不是每个人是交际花 里瑟先生。

There are several traits that can help you pinpoint whether someone is a social butterfly.

有几个特征可以帮助您确定某人是否是社交达人。

Oh, come on, Mary, the boy's not exactly a social butterfly.

拜托 玛丽 谢尔顿可不是交际花。

Getting along with a social butterfly is easy—at first, Dr. Shah says.

与社交蝴蝶相处很容易——一开始， Shah 博士说。

I have a few tips, and you don't have to be a social butterfly to give them a try.

我有一些建议，您不必成为社交达人也可以尝试一下。

It's also important to set " reasonable expectations" for a long-term friendship with a social butterfly, Dr. Chopik says.

Chopik 博士说， 为与交际花建立长期友谊设定“ 合理期望” 也很重要。

Someone who likes their alone time might not have a brain response that is as strong as someone who is a social butterfly.

喜欢独处的人可能没有社交达人那么强烈的大脑反应。

She didn't have any close friends, but she had seemingly taken an interest in Shima-chan, a social butterfly who could talk to just about anyone.

她没有任何亲密的朋友， 但她似乎对小岛感兴趣，她是一个几乎可以和任何人交谈的交际花。

" One of the core features of being a social butterfly is that they are extroverted—this means that they're often outgoing, pleasant, approachable, and talkative, " he adds.

“交际花的核心特征之一是他们性格外向——这意味着他们通常外向、愉快、平易近人且健谈， ” 他补充道。

Very creative, very outgoing, very gregarious, very much a social butterfly, just really liked to be around people. And she could take nothing and create something magnificent from that, so very smart.

非常有创意，非常外向，非常善于交际，非常善于社交，只是真的很喜欢和人在一起。她什么也没拿，就能从中创造出一些宏伟的东西，非常聪明。

But what's often not understood is that, in actuality, being a social butterfly is more than a personality trait—it's a full-blown lifestyle—and one that isn't necessarily the effortless breeze that it's often presumed to be.

但通常不被理解的是，实际上，社交达人不仅仅是一种人格特质——它是一种成熟的生活方式——而且不一定像人们通常认为的那样轻松自如。