But actually, this person is involved in a different language game.

但实际上，对方是在玩不同的游戏。

So in the language game, they're involved in, " You never help" means " I want you to be more nurturing."

所以在他们这个语言游戏中，“你从来不帮忙”实际上的意思是“我要你更呵护我。”