So, yes, acknowledge the grief, work through it, but also, like, know that the ending and the sickness and, like, how you lost them, that's not the sum of your relationship.

所以, 是的, 承认悲伤, 努力克服它, 但也知道结局和疾病, 以及你如何失去它们, 这不是你们关系的总和。