But if they just see you as perfect and can't see your flaws, sorry to say — it's not that you don't have flaws, it's because — that is red flag number seven.

但是，如果他们只是认为你是完美的， 而看不到你的缺点，那么很抱歉——这并不是说你没有缺点， 而是因为——这是第七个危险信号。