And please tell Ms. Shaw this is not her cross to bear.

请告诉肖女士 此事与她无关。

It causes you much worry and concern. This is a heavy cross to bear.

这让你很着急也很担心。这是你必须面对的一个窘境（a heavy cross to bear）。

Lord, child. That is a cross to bear.

神啊 这也太悲催太凄惨了吧。

Tracey Emin makes her bed – or rather unmakes it - every time the work goes on display – and that sounds like a terrible cross to bear.

翠西·艾敏每次展览作品的时候都会整理她的床，或者说破坏她的床，这听上去非常难以忍受。