So, you can go back to your policy of benign neglect.

所以，你们可以继续对我善意忽视。

Very important to the success of the treatment is the use of benign neglect.

善意的忽视对于治疗的成功非常重要。

That was when I realized that this sort of benign neglect was a real problem, and it had real consequences, not just for Alex and her love life, but for the careers and the families and the futures of twentysomethings everywhere.

那一刻我意识到这种善意的忽视是一个严重的问题，而且是有后果，不仅对Alex和她的感情生活，而是对所有处于20多岁的人的事业、家庭和未来。