You start failing exams and you've got teachers judging you, you've got parents judging you.

你开始考试不及格时，老师会批评你，然后家长也会批评你。

The second reason is that once we started failing more often, we realized that actually it's not that bad, it's not what we make it out to be.

第二个原因是一旦我们经常经历失败，我们会意识到那其实并不那么糟糕，不像我们想象的那么糟。