Like any good writer, the sexter must create profound effects in another’s mind nearly through the manipulation of the alphabet.

像任何优秀的作家一样， 性爱者必须几乎通过字母表的操纵在他人的脑海中产生深远的影响。

The good sexter knows how to call forth the otherwise shamed, shy parts of their partner and to lead them to lay aside the punishing propriety that society normally demands.

优秀的性爱者知道如何唤起他们伴侣原本羞愧、害羞的部分，并引导他们放下社会通常要求的惩罚性礼仪。