Oftentimes, extreme jealousy leads to extreme possessiveness in an attempt to control and keep your partner close.

通常，极端的嫉妒会导致极端的占有欲，试图控制你的伴侣和与之保持亲密联系。

Yet despite her circle of confidants, she kept to herself the grip her sometime boyfriend had on her, along with his possessiveness, jealousy and violence.

然而， 尽管有她的知己圈子，她还是把她以前的男朋友对她的控制，以及他的占有欲、嫉妒和暴力都藏在心里。