But we can't live our lives by picking a fight every single time we get irritated.

但我们不能每次生气的时候都挑起争端。

That's all for now, but we'll be picking another topic to discuss out of the blue, next time.

今天节目就到这里，但是我们下次会突然挑选另一个话题讨论的。

It's helpful picking the right time to go thrifting, too.

选择正确的节俭时间也很有帮助。

Pear, nothing is more important than picking the right time to say the " W" word.

- 梨，没有什么比选择合适的时间说“ W” 字更重要的了。

STEP 6 Speak up to solve problems, but limit bickering by not picking a fight every time your partner does something you don't like.

大胆说出解决问题的方法，但是不要在每次你的伴侣做了你不喜欢的事情就争吵不休。

" Watch out for your mouth, " was all that Pilar Ternera brought out after spreading and picking up the cards three times.

“注意你的嘴巴，” Pilar Ternera 将卡片摊开并捡起三遍后，只说了一句。