They also felt like they were losing pleasure and fulfillment in their parental role.

他们还觉得自己为人父母时，失去了快乐和满足感。

They would rather be the child in the equation than the parent, and they'd rather have the conceiver take a parental role.

他们宁愿是等式中的孩子，也不愿是父母，他们宁愿让构想者扮演父母的角色。