So in other words, he leaves his niceness behind and that is when he becomes funny.

换句话说，他把他的善良抛在脑后，这就是他变得有趣的时候。

We expect greater niceness from women and can become angry when they don't conform to that expectation.

我们都期望同性能对自己更好，如果她们没有达到这种期望，我们就会生气。

No, it's not bribery, it's just niceness.

不 这不是贿赂 只是友善而已。

It's very frightening to have to deal with niceness.

不得不来面对善良是很怕人的。

And truthfully you probably prefer a certain combination of niceness and good looks.

老实讲，在善良度和养眼度的组合中，你应该会有所偏好。

I don't really remember, I think it's just like niceness or kindness or something.

我不太记得了，好像是说我人很好还是什么的。

But in practice it's pretty hard to deal with niceness when it does come along.

但在现实中，善良的对象是令人难以招架的如果它慢慢地逼过来。

The first thing you noticed about him was his niceness.

【nice，niceness】你对他的第一印象是他为人和善。

I mean, is it really true that, like, all the niceness was just a perverse form of racism?

我的意思是，所有的善意真的只是一种反常的种族主义吗？

What if " niceness" carried to that supreme degree were only a negation, the curtain dropped before an emptiness?

如果“善良” 达到最高程度只是一种否定，帷幕在空虚之前落下怎么办？

Well, it turns out the top ranked strategies were almost all the ones that begin with what the scientists classified as" niceness" .

事实证明，排名最高的策略几乎都是从科学家们所称的“友善”开始的。

And I think as you work through this, I don't want to be a proponent of killing niceness entirely.

我认为，当你解决这个问题时，我并不想成为完全扼杀善良的支持者。

So first we need to ask ourselves the question, how many people are on board with this niceness culture, really?

因此，我们首先需要问自己一个问题，到底有多少人真正认同这种友善文化？

I affect no niceness of conscience — I have not found any nice standards necessary yet to measure your actions by, sir.

我没有出于良心的考虑——我还没有找到任何好的标准来衡量你的行为，先生。

His host's contemptuous tribute to May's " niceness" was just what a husband should have wished to hear said of his wife.

他的主人轻蔑地称赞梅的“善良”，这正是丈夫应该希望听到的关于他妻子的话。

If so, then the researcher got higher scores for niceness when they acted nice and worse scores for unpleasantness when they acted like a jerk.

如果相似，当研究员表现得很好时，评分就高，而当其表现得像个混蛋时，评分就低。

And this niceness, forgiveness and non-envious behaviour pays; not only in monetary terms like our game, but even in the real world, from an evolutionary perspective.

这种友善、宽容和不嫉妒的行为是有回报的。不仅在金钱方面，甚至在现实世界中，从进化的角度来看也是有回报的。

After a lifetime of interacting with someone who engages in anxious niceness, what we find is that most people on the receiving end are racial minorities.

在与那些表现出焦虑友善的人交往了一辈子之后，我们发现， 大多数接受这种友善对待的人都是少数族裔。

He extolled their niceness, snapping them as they basked companionably on warm mud or on a favourite bank of long grass, the forefoot of one embracing the back of another.

他称颂鳄鱼的漂亮，当鳄鱼们在暖和的烂泥中懒洋洋地晒太阳，或在舒适的长草坡上，一只鳄鱼的前足趴在另一只鳄鱼的背上时，他拍摄它们。

I think it's actually really important to put niceness in the delivery of your feedback, and that can come across in a bunch of different ways.

我认为在提供反馈时友善的态度确实非常重要，而且友善的态度可以通过多种不同方式体现出来。