A loving relationship demands multiple and shared perspectives, which always give rise to incongruences and tensions.

一段恋爱关系讲求既多样又相同的思想，这便总会让两人感觉不合适，导致关系紧张。

The mind doesn't like when there is incongruence between the inside and outside.

我们的大脑不能接受内在和外在不一致的情况。

Looking at family histories, gender identity incongruence seems to run in the family, meaning they may be inherited.

从家族历史来看，变形似乎在家族中普遍存在，这意味着它们可能是遗传的。

That doesn't make sense why is there incongruence there. It should be: " America, I wanna tell you something" , not " America, I want tell you something" .

这其中的不协调实在让人费解。理应是：" 美国人民，我想跟你们说" ，而不是" 美国人民，我要跟告诉你们" 。