As someone who has actually had a gun to her head, cheese is not what they're going to ask about.

作为一个真被人拿枪抵着头过的人，他们才不会问你喜欢什么奶酪。

" The head cheese" means the boss or whoever's in charge at the place.

“头奶酪” 是指老板或任何在这个地方负责的人。