So it becomes a go-to threat, warning that if you don't change your behaviors to their specifications, you'll end up alone forever.

所以这就变成了一种威胁，警告你如果不按照他们的要求改变自己的行为，你将孤独终老。

The first thing we may have to blame for our forever alone status is our parents and more specifically the effect they have on our attachment style.

第一个要负责的可能是我们的父母，更确切地说，是他们对我们的依恋类型的影响。

Because then I'll have to come up with a new excuse to tell my mom as to why I'm forever alone.

因为那样我就得想出一个新的借口来告诉我妈妈为什么我永远孤独。