That would be giving into agonism.

那将是屈服于痛苦。

And it's the relationship that cures agonism, not giving up what we believe.

治愈痛苦的是关系，而不是放弃我们所相信的。

To have the kind of relationships that cure agonism.

拥有那种可以治愈痛苦的关系。

So for me to honor my faith, it means rejecting these rigid symptoms of agonism.

所以对我来说，尊重我的信仰意味着拒绝这些僵化的痛苦症状。

See, what my neighbor suffered from is a condition called agonism.

看，我的邻居遭受的是一种叫做痛苦的病症。

They give us a sense of the polytheistic agonism and opacity of human affairs, both their value and vanity.

它们让我们感受到多神教的斗争和人类事务的不透明性，包括它们的价值和虚荣心。

So let's talk a little bit about what agonism is.

那么让我们来谈谈什么是激动。

I want to continue to choose relationships over agonism.

我想继续选择关系而不是痛苦。

My favorite definition of agonism is taking a warlike stance in contexts that are not literally war.

我最喜欢的对抗主义定义是在非战争的情况下采取好战的立场。

The cure for agonism is not out of reach.

治疗激动症并非遥不可及。

So as we go, if you're having a hard time hearing me, I just gently ask that you reflect and see if you're buying into agonism.

所以在我们开始的时候， 如果你听不懂我的话，我只是轻轻地请你反思一下， 看看你是否接受了痛苦。

We all tend to show symptoms of agonism when we hold on to two deeply held beliefs, first identified by author Rick Warren.

当我们坚持两个根深蒂固的信念时，我们都倾向于表现出痛苦的症状，首先由作家里克沃伦确定。